Showering together with your partner often sounds like the ultimate couple goal. Movies and social media make it seem romantic, steamy, and picture-perfect.

But if you’ve ever actually tried it, you probably know it’s not always as effortless as it seems. In fact, the reality of squeezing two people into one shower stall can be far from colorful. From bumping elbows to combating over hot water, here are the top five struggles couples face when they decide to shower together.

1. Fighting for Space

Showers are rarely built for two, unless you live in a luxury home with a massive bathroom. For most couples, sharing the shower means constantly bumping into each other. One person ends up pressed against the cold tile while the other hogs the middle. If one partner tries to rinse their hair, the other usually has to twist awkwardly just to avoid getting shampoo in their eyes. What should feel romantic often transforms into a clumsy dance of dodging elbows, knees, and slippery feet.

2. The Battle of Water Temperature