When Jeremy and I married, we agreed to split all living expenses, including rent. He told me our apartment cost $2,000 monthly, so I paid him $1,000 each month, trusting him to handle the payment.
To afford my share, I worked two jobs—office work by day and restaurant shifts at night—believing we were saving for our future together. I was exhausted but motivated by the goal of buying a home together.
For two years, everything seemed normal—until a casual elevator conversation with a neighbor changed everything. She innocently mentioned we lived in Jeremy’s mother’s apartment, which she had owned for years. My heart sank. I had no idea his mother was our “landlord,” and it became clear I hadn’t been paying rent to a third party—I had been giving money to Jeremy and his family.