Nobody wants to be seen as someone who consistently underperforms in the bedroom. In today’s more open society, intimacy is no longer taboo, which means people’s behavior is often under greater observation and criticism.
Fortunately, research now provides useful insights into what really matters. To improve intimacy, avoid common mistakes: don’t talk excessively—communication should be brief and purposeful. Never engage without passion, as lack of enthusiasm is easily noticed. Keep variety alive—don’t rely on one routine.
Be a good kisser, since kissing sets the tone. Show care, warmth, and attentiveness, treating intimacy as connection rather than obligation. Communicate wisely but sparingly, and remember generosity matters—prioritize your partner’s pleasure as much as your own for a truly fulfilling experience.
