Six hours into labor, clinging to Dave’s hand, I watched him step out to take a call from his mom. Minutes later, he kissed my forehead and left—she needed help with groceries. Alone, I felt betrayal crash over me with every contraction. The nurse, Gloria, promised I wasn’t alone; my dad rushed in, smelling of fried chicken, and stood beside me as I brought our daughter, Gabrielle, into the world.
Dave missed it. I left him a letter and the video: This is what you chose to skip. Being a father costs presence.
He returned too late, devastated. Since then, he’s been trying—showing up at feeds, appointments, chores. I’m letting time prove if regret can become reliability.