I’ve always believed that love is what you do, not just what you say. That belief shaped my entire life — as a wife, a mother, and later, as a grandmother. But sometimes, love can blind you. It can make you too generous, too willing to sacrifice, until someone you raised, someone you’d give your life for, turns around and wounds you in a way you never thought possible.

My name is Martha. I’m 72 years old. My life has been defined by family, by books, and by survival.

I married my husband, Bill, when I was 19. He was a factory worker, broad-shouldered and gentle. We bought a small bungalow with creaky floors and ugly wallpaper, but it was ours. We dreamed of filling it with laughter and children. Those dreams were cut short when, one icy morning, Bill left for work and never came home. A factory accident took him from me, and I was left with a four-year-old daughter and a mountain of bills.