I have a 16-year-old daughter from my first marriage. Her late father left her $50,000, which I’ve managed for her. I also have a 9-year-old daughter with my current husband.

Wanting both girls to have equal opportunities, we used some of the elder’s inheritance for private school, as we were struggling financially. When my eldest found out, she was furious. The next morning, I found her with a packed suitcase, eyes red from crying.

She whispered, “I don’t feel like this is my home anymore.” I realized then—her father’s money wasn’t just funds, but a connection to him. We apologized and promised to repay it. We’re healing now. I’ve learned love means respecting each child’s unique story.