When my sister Sue asked to host her son’s birthday party at my house, I agreed and even left snacks, decorations, and a $400 LEGO gift for my nephew.

While I was away, she texted updates that sounded like the party was going perfectly. But when I got home early, nothing made sense — pink balloons, wine bottles, glitter confetti, and a “Congratulations, Jessica!” banner. It wasn’t a kid’s party at all. Sue had used my house to host a paid baby shower for a stranger and pocketed $900, using my supplies and money without my permission.

When confronted, she shrugged it off: “You weren’t using the house.” That was the moment I realized the issue wasn’t a party — it was betrayal. Now, she’s no longer allowed to use my home, because family doesn’t get a free pass to disrespect trust.