After going through multiple failed relationships, I began to suspect that my daughters’ intense questioning of my boyfriends might be the real problem. They would grill each man about his intentions, finances, and past, often making them feel uncomfortable and judged. After my third breakup, a coworker bluntly told me that meeting my daughters felt more like a job interview than a casual introduction.
That moment was eye-opening. I realized that, despite their good intentions, my daughters were unintentionally scaring off my dates. I decided to have an honest conversation with them, thanking them for their protectiveness but asking them to trust my judgment when it came to relationships. They opened up about their fears of me getting hurt again and agreed to tone down their interrogation.
Months later, when I met someone new, my daughters accepted him with less resistance. Though I could tell they were still watching carefully, they were willing to give him a chance and allow the relationship to grow naturally. This shift in attitude brought a healthier dynamic and renewed hope for a lasting relationship.
