Narcissism often hides deep insecurity and feelings of worthlessness. Behind the confident or self-centered exterior is usually a fragile person who depends heavily on admiration and struggles with criticism.
What Narcissistic Behavior Looks Like:
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Craves praise and approval
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Reacts badly to criticism—either with anger or withdrawal
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Lacks genuine empathy, focusing mainly on their own needs
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Can be manipulative and dismissive of others’ achievements
Why It’s Hard to Be Around a Narcissist:
Dealing with a narcissist can feel like walking through a minefield. They’re highly sensitive, even if they don’t show it. Trying to connect or reason with them may be emotionally exhausting and frustrating.
Tips for Handling Narcissistic People:
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Stay honest but gentle: Offer sincere feedback without blame.
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Avoid feeding their ego: Don’t offer praise they haven’t earned.
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Don’t let them control your thoughts or feelings: Stay aware of manipulation.
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Stand up for yourself: Calmly express how their actions affect you.
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Help, if you can: Encourage humility through small actions, like waiting in line or recognizing others’ strengths.
Final Thought:
Narcissists often suffer silently. While they may seem selfish, they may also be trying to cope with unresolved pain. The key is to set healthy boundaries while offering empathy—without losing yourself in the process.