Funerals are deeply emotional moments where words carry immense weight. While offering condolences, even well-meaning comments can unintentionally hurt those who are grieving. Here are four common phrases to avoid—and what to say instead.

**1. “They’re in a better place now.”**
Though intended to comfort, this can sound dismissive of someone’s pain. Grief isn’t lessened by spiritual beliefs and this phrase may feel like an attempt to hurry their healing.
*What to say instead:* “I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m here if you need anything.”